Brenda, lovingly known to everyone as "Bren Bren" and famously crowned Ms. Lava, was born on December 13, 1957, in Cincinnati, Ohio. One of six children, Brenda grew up with a bold spirit, undeniable style, and a personality that could light up any room.

Well known throughout the Millvale and Cumminsville communities, Brenda was unforgettable. Growing up, she proudly said, "I was bad—they all wanted me, and they loved me too," and that confidence followed her throughout her life. Her presence was magnetic, her words were legendary, and her laugh was contagious.

To many, Brenda wasn't just a neighbor; she was an aunt figure, a mother figure, and a protector of the community. She opened her heart and her hands, caring for neighborhood children, helping clean homes, and making sure everyone around her felt looked after. Brenda was never stingy with anything—especially not love.

Bren Bren had a way of keeping everyone laughing, even if she had to curse you out once in a while—but it was always love. Her heart was big, her loyalty was real, and her care ran deep. And if you ever heard her signature call—"ERRRIIIIIKKKKK!"—you knew Bren Bren was coming. That sound alone is stamped in the hearts of everyone who knew her.

When you think of Brenda—when you miss her, laugh about her, or feel her spirit nearby—just say "Errrriiiik." That's Bren Bren: always present, always loved, always unforgettable.

Brenda leaves to cherish her memory her loving children: Dionne Kirksey, Alonzo Budd, Oznola "Sheree" Budd, Mary Budd, and Geraldine Ballew. She also leaves behind her cherished grandchildren: Roosevelt Curry, Terra Curry, Te'Ari Hughes, Danae Ballew, EJay Walker, Jaxson Smith, Alonzo Budd Jr., and Zore Budd; her great-grandchild, Khalil Curry; along with a host of loving nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Mamie Lee Dunton; her father, Simon Parmell; her sister, Diane Kirksey; and her brothers, Preston Kirksey, Charles Ralph Kirksey, and Larry Kirksey.

Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from 10:00 am until 11:00 am on Monday, February 16, 2026, at the Walker Funeral Home - Walnut Hills Chapel, 2625 Gilbert Avenue, Cincinnati  (45206).   The funeral service will immediately follow the visitation, beginning at 11:00 am. Friends and family will gather to share memories, find solace in one another's company, and honor the legacy she leaves behind.

We invite you to take a few moments to share fond memories and words of comfort and condolence with the Kirksey family. Please click the "Tribute Wall" icon above and to the right, enter the information, and click "Save Post."

Walker Funeral Home and Crematory  is caring for the Kirksey family during this difficult time.  Please call 513.251.6200 or visit www.HerbWalker.com for additional information.